bad example
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gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy??
guy: yeah, tired from work...
gal (sounding concerned): ok, shan't disturb u, go
and sleep lah
guy: ok, you have an early nite too..
guy hangs up the phone.
5 min later, phone rings.
awaken by the phone,
guy: hello?
gal: .............
guy: who's this?
gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me
is it?
guy (confused): huh? what?
gal: .............
guy: why? what happened?
gal: you find me very bothersome is it?
guy: bothersome? what makes you say that??
gal: ..............
guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you
dun say it out?
gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and
went off to sleep...
guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to
sleep...
gal: you already said want to sleep already, what
else u want me to say?
guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so...
what for tell me to go sleep, and feel unhappy in
the end?
gal: since when i'm unhappy?
guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the
next time, will that do?
gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me
willingly, and not because afraid that i will be
unhappy...
in the end, guy spends another hr comforting
gal, actual sleep time is 11.40pm, plus the
earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep.
what's worse is the gal may argue with the same
thing again the next day.
good example
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gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?
guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit,
tired from work. but you have not finished
talking, carry on, i will be listening.
gal (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired,
go and sleep then (still sounding out)
never fall into the trap and hang up the phone
guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more
tiring. how abt i give u a call tomorrow morning.
let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the reason, and
offer make up measure)
gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.
gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must
do a bit more than this
guy: so what time you are going to sleep?
gal: not sure, probably a bit later.
guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i
will be heart pain one hor...
gal (feeling loved): ok lah...
guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are
shutting also must remember to say this impt
words, else all effort wasted)
gal: i love you too, have a good rest! (happy till
can float liao)
guy: ehmm...
gal hang up the phone
in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and
probably a morning call from gal the next day...
conclusion 1:
female wants feeling and care. most of the time,
female's logic cannot be figured out with a
reasoning mind.
conclusion 2:
say a few more touching words, concerning lines,
will save you more than hr of precious time
conclusion 3:
when encounter the above situation, must always
let the gal hang up the phone first. else it will
be disastrous...
conclusion 4:
if your gf isn't like the one in the example, then
congrats to u! treasure her! *amen :)* but if
otherwise, dun accuse her of being unreasonable.
what she wants is very simple..
if i could ask God for just one gift, it would be
the ability to understand women lol ;p
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gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy??
guy: yeah, tired from work...
gal (sounding concerned): ok, shan't disturb u, go
and sleep lah
guy: ok, you have an early nite too..
guy hangs up the phone.
5 min later, phone rings.
awaken by the phone,
guy: hello?
gal: .............
guy: who's this?
gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me
is it?
guy (confused): huh? what?
gal: .............
guy: why? what happened?
gal: you find me very bothersome is it?
guy: bothersome? what makes you say that??
gal: ..............
guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you
dun say it out?
gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and
went off to sleep...
guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to
sleep...
gal: you already said want to sleep already, what
else u want me to say?
guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so...
what for tell me to go sleep, and feel unhappy in
the end?
gal: since when i'm unhappy?
guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the
next time, will that do?
gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me
willingly, and not because afraid that i will be
unhappy...
in the end, guy spends another hr comforting
gal, actual sleep time is 11.40pm, plus the
earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep.
what's worse is the gal may argue with the same
thing again the next day.
good example
============
gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?
guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit,
tired from work. but you have not finished
talking, carry on, i will be listening.
gal (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired,
go and sleep then (still sounding out)
never fall into the trap and hang up the phone
guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more
tiring. how abt i give u a call tomorrow morning.
let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the reason, and
offer make up measure)
gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.
gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must
do a bit more than this
guy: so what time you are going to sleep?
gal: not sure, probably a bit later.
guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i
will be heart pain one hor...
gal (feeling loved): ok lah...
guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are
shutting also must remember to say this impt
words, else all effort wasted)
gal: i love you too, have a good rest! (happy till
can float liao)
guy: ehmm...
gal hang up the phone
in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and
probably a morning call from gal the next day...
conclusion 1:
female wants feeling and care. most of the time,
female's logic cannot be figured out with a
reasoning mind.
conclusion 2:
say a few more touching words, concerning lines,
will save you more than hr of precious time
conclusion 3:
when encounter the above situation, must always
let the gal hang up the phone first. else it will
be disastrous...
conclusion 4:
if your gf isn't like the one in the example, then
congrats to u! treasure her! *amen :)* but if
otherwise, dun accuse her of being unreasonable.
what she wants is very simple..
if i could ask God for just one gift, it would be
the ability to understand women lol ;p
