Please tell me...

[alantan]

okie...
there is a girl i like.
she's super smart...really smart as in smarter than me alot...can do maths,physics,bio,chem so well 100 x better than me

and what am i?
i'm just a stupid boy.Maths?haha...until form 3 can la....physics?theory yes but not calculation?chemitry?what teh heck?i got a D..
ermm..besides that i'm only good at drawing her potrait,knitting scarf,making cards,some othe handcrafts...and most of them are girlish things

and now i'[m doing Animation and visual effects and she?she is doing food and dietics

all her friends are either super smart or smart....and there's no stupid among them..and all her friends..hahahaha.....just 100 x better than me

why i ask the girls to come in?
in a girl point of view..will you choose a smart guy or a stupid guy that does stupid things like doings cards and knitting scarfs for her?

 

[szekeiemme]

all depends on girls..

 

[boggysv]

I'm not a girl, but if i am, and u make a card for me, i sure very "lum" wan :wub:

 

[BLaCkHoWLiNG]

there's no such thing as smart girls with dumb guys or watever.. dude.. wat u have is low self esteem.. smart girls don get fucked? dude.. use yer brains alittle and give yerself some credit..so wat if they are good in maths and have good results? does dat guarantee a solid future? it's jes to get a license to a better job... (though it's important to graduate!)... jes chill... boost yer self esteem.... please... alan, u dont seem DUMB to me...

 

[topui11]

gti88....

pergh.. nice girls in the pic... hehehe

alantan.. just be yourself. don't try to be someone that u r not... cos you'll end up being dumber than u already are!! hehehe

;)

 

[PrinceHamsap]

the keyword here is CHARM

one of the top weapon to overcome your lengchai competitor :lol:

 

[gti88]

topui11,

Cheers mate !! ;) ;) :lol:


Alantan,

Just be yourself, if she doesnt want you, dont care about it..
as the old folks always say, " there are many other fishes in the sea ! "

good luck nonetheless. ;)

 

[xtracooljustin]

Originally posted by PrinceHamsap@Jan 8 2005, 01:12
the keyword here is CHARM

one of the top weapon to overcome your lengchai competitor :lol:

what Prince hamsap actually means is to kill all ur possible competitors wua ha ha!!

but on da serious note, just b urself ok? if she dun like u for who u r then she is not right for u...

just go da extra mile doing things for her... she'll notice sooner or later all da amount of good things u do... u dun have to b academically smart to 'kau' her u know...

 

[Serra]

You are in college getting a degree. So it may not be a degree in Science or Math or watever, but that doesnt make you stupid.

Well, i am a girl just in case you are wondering, and if there is a guy who would hand make cards for me, and actually KNIT for me, I would be very very touched. And stupid is the last thing I would call him. ;)

But if I don't have feelings for him (in that special kinda way), I wouldn't accept him as my bf even if he could give me the world. He can either just move on, OR he can work harder to win my heart.

So, Im not going to say what you should or should not do because you of all ppl would know what is best for yourself. Just remember never put yourself down and have a little more confidence!!

and oh just off the record, I have a friend who is a straight A student, and is getting a FULL SCHOLARSHIP from the government to study in UK for 4 years, and her boyfren? Didn't even finish high school, and they have been together for more than 3 years. ;)

 

[coolblue]

what ever it is ....
if she didnt choose you ... is her big mistake ...
dont need to be down just because of that .

i guess alot of guys encounter this before .. :)

 

[links]

not neccessary must be smart only can go after a smart gal one....academic results does not reflect much when come to the real working world...many many of successful men dont even finished their secondary school...you see the top 100 rich man in the world how many are from harvards,cambridge???

just be confident for yourself and be yourself when you approach to her..but onething need to consider is, will she go abroad to further her studies, if she do then will you going to the same place? if not then better prepare for a distance relationship..

when i was in college, i did met a gal with all As in her SPM and taking Advance A level which only takes in straight A students. We did get together for a very short moment but gave up becoz she is going to UK in a years time for 5 years medicine course...but i m will be going to Australia. infact most of the time, the smart gal wont choose a smart bf...why? you need to ask the smart gal lo... :P

 

[shinji]

Heya alan,

Firstly, you need not to worry if you qualify for her or not. It's not up to you to decide but hers!

Let me tell you, im loser and I think very pesismistic. I failed all subjects since standard 4 all the way till form5. But of course, i do pass my UPSR, PMR and SPM ler.

I'll cut it short.

Im not born in a rich family. I don't even have enough money to support myself.
I don't even have my own ride.
I don't have any qualities.
Im almost equal to a shit. Ya know?

All i had was just good friends.

There was this girl, she has a crush on me. I realli liked her so much. It's realli hard to describe.. but i do ... i seriously do like her so much! I wished i could kiss her, i could hug and i would do many things for her.

But .. *ahem* here's the part.

In the past, she's got Rich b/f. Big time b/fs. Handsome b/f.
Hey what am i compared to those b/fs? im just a failure and loser.

However, she puts so much effort in getting to know me, We chat all the time, on the phone and on the internet.

She never bothered what i had or what kinda person i was.
Most prolly, she had a crush on me because im different from the other guys around her.

It's like she realli liked me and i wanted her badly.
It went on for 2 years!
I avoided myself from her, because i didn't want to fall in love with her. I knew it wouldn't last.

Somehow i think she gave up.
I regret alot now. I just wished i was more optimistic back then.

Anyway sry for the long story.

The main point is, Just be yourself. Never be bothered how others think bout you. If you want the girl to like you, Im sure you want her to like the person who you are rite. Im sure you wouldn't want her to like you just because you're smart, handsome, rich & etc.

Anyway good luck

 

[junauto]

JUST BE YOUR SELF

My answer is, it depends on the girl, I don't know of any statistics though.

 

[SideWaysGrey]

I totally agree with tupai and links :lol:
alan,
u can knit? omg...havent came across a guy who can knit. Let me share my exp.

Last time I also thought like you, dat Im not up to these 'smart, very beautiful, popular gal' and always saw the rich glamour guys whip these gals up (even now) untill I went out with my ex. She was dat gal like u describe, only more! :D During the course of our relationship for 1.5 years I was in her circle of frens like her and I was really intimated initially but now I walk tall and full confidence and infact can even kutuk them at times. It took alot of time, patience, observation and big balls to bring myself to that level today. My advise to U, just chill, relax and do what you enjoy...err apart from the knitting, lets leave dat to da grannies.

Live by this principle. 'Therez no woman whoz heart I can't win'

At the end of the day, we are all humans even the smart, tall, beautiful, glamorous wateva else u wanna name it. They still eat rice and shit err shit la...
so no difference with U rite?

Stop being a wussy and start making changes to ure lifestyle and mentality. You are not inferior to anyone but God. We are all born the SAME, its how we make the best of it. So go out and get that gal tiger!
A tip I learnt, the more smart & beautiful the gal, the more insecure she is about herself...so work that to your advantage.
NEVER judge a person by their qualification, but EXPERIENCE and PERSONALITY.
Its no use if she is good at studies but sux at being an individual and gf to you rite?
You'll grow bored of her in no time and she'll just remain a trophy gf to you.

Try working out ure body, it helps to boost your self confidence and self esteem.

Hope this helps. Good luck mate. Hidup DeTomaso!

 

[mindysy]

if she love u, she dont care u stupid o not , bcos LOVE IS BLIND ...

important is u sayang & care her .....


If a girl mind u poor , drive lousy car....u better forget her, if she really love u..she don mind at all ..bcos she love u not ur car & $$

 

[Glocker]

All you need my friend, is self-confidence and self-belief. No one ever likes a wet blanket, or a mopey dude. Everyday, when you brush your teeth, look in the mirror and say, "This might be the day she'll be mine," then keep a positive attitude and erm, dress up like it's your prom date lah, haha.

But lemme tell you my story. I was going after this girl, pretty, sexy, everything you would want for in a girl. Unfortunately I missed my chance, but I waited for her for 2 years, while she went through other boyfriends. Finally, I couldn't wait anymore, I decided to look elsewhere. Lo and behold, I found my current girlfriend. She was one of the closest friend I had, and she had a crush on me ever since we met. So don't just focus on one girl, because when you open your eyes and look around, you'll find love where you least expect it to be.

 

[XaMaX]

Just be yourself...and tackle her....if she reject...and if you still like her very much...Throw all your skills to make her yours....

have faith

 

[szekeiemme]

create a animation for her... propose to her wif animation!

 

[satria_95]

Yo man,
just go for the chick,
show `em your kick,
use your trick,
give `em a flick,
harden your dick,
stick `em your stick,
and they'll ask for more of your prick.

Peace. hehehe

 

[unclebabi]

:lol:
alan...so many ppl help u ........get urself sum ballz la dude......i fully 120%support ya kay?
cmon baby ~!!! go go go~!!!!