My #%$* Gf!

[davidlim]

everybody pls help,giving advice to me.....
everytime i go out with my gf,her hp surely will receive sms by other guys,she always said just fren,when i ask deeply only she say is guy,everytime different guys and the sms will only stop at late night once start sms-ing.
sometimes when we yum cha or go out anywhere,if got guys calling her,she surely will chat with them more than 30 minutes everytime,just let me sitting there like stupid A$$ h*le.
when the guys in the phone asking who she b with now,she wont say bf(me),she will only say fren,make me angry,burning like hell.she dun wan let other guys know she hav me,is it she wanna gip chance to others as well??
what should i do to stop her from repeating this??? :( :(
i wish to rampas her phone when she chatting and fu*king that guy kau kau,but dun wan her unhappy,actually she oso damn fu*king,coz she can choose to stop the conversation but she didnt do so,damn %&*#$@!
although she is my gf,but i wish to kick her a$$ and give a f**k to this girl!~!!!!!
pls give advise.... :( :( T_T

 

[evo4g63]

i dun know u u dun know me, but i m a straight frwrd guy... if i m in ur shoe... i will get a new gal instead... anyway mayb u can do the same to her?? find some girl fren of urs ask them call u tok cok or wat so ever... n chit chat like the way ur gf chit chat with other infront of us... see how she feels...

by the way dun flame me i reply in a sleepy condition n find ur tread to b interesting

 

[sky_lor]

well brother, i dun mean to ask u to break up with her or what...but last time my fren's gf also like this one. got one time...during chinese new year...we whole gang of fren make our own reunion party...so eat steamboat...then before start, the girl was talking on the phone, then we all wait...then his bf go and tell her everyone is waiting for her...then the girl just ask my fren diam lar, i am talking on the phone, then she walk and go talk at outside...my fren was like...damn...not giving face at all...we all was shock...somemore the girl when talking to other guy in phone...she like very lembut and like to say something can make ppl thinkg bukan bukan...haha...so my advise...just think twice lor...is it worth it or not...if not then just bye bye...there are alot of better girl outside....haha....

 

[thteh86]

go for another girl, don't have to be soft with this kinda girl. Break up, even if i'm not fit to advice u

 

[xtorm]

wow.....she go online alot 1 izit? hokkien we call 'hiao po', but if u lov her too much....nothing can doler, she nvr say with bf? then u r in troubler.....cos she is still searching

 

[szekeiemme]

all depends on u...

 

[boggysv]

just tell her straight that you dont like it, no point hiding.

 

[Yong_5290]

4get about her...if u can...

coz i have 2 accompany my fren 4 1month bcoz his gf suddenly broke up wit him...which all begins just like ur csase...talk too much on the fon...wit other guy sumore

 

[tsumibito]

...green cap.

 

[acbc]

Ask her to explain... if cannot, dump her and find someone else... why bother wasting your time and money on her?

 

[boggysv]

Originally posted by tsumibito@Apr 26 2005, 00:19
...green cap.

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headshot :lol:

 

[tombstone]

bro..juz dump the slut la...she doesnt deserve ur kinda love...

many fishes out in the sea...and believe me.PLENTY OF CHICKS AROUND who are smart and funny and loves u for who u are..so give urself another chance..not her okie..u sound very young so dun be so hasty to find the right one..juz go out and have fun..

not necessary must have gf to be happy okiez

juz my 2 cents...

 

[davidlim]

tombstone: yea,u r right,im quite young,not enuf 20.
seems like all oso suggest i break with her,i hav to think of it 1st,coz no matter how oso i love her ma..
some girl really like $hit,like always wanna give chance to others since oledi hav bf,really dun understand y some girls so 'flower heart'.
actually girl say boy flower heart,but i think nowadays girl more flower heart,im not saying all the girls ar,just some of the girls,seriously,u all think so???

 

[ninja_iga]

if she's that type,
then FORGET the girl.


NOT WORTH IT, she doesn't love you, nor respect you.

 

[BlackSamurai]

tell her ur feeling, if she can't change and you can't take the way how she treat you, you shall know what to do..

in my opinion, the gal that you decribes... treat you like cow and looking for horses, understand? but that's the judgement i draw from what you wrote, i might be wrong.

Loving is about hapiness, if you are not happy with the gal, then dun continue..

 

[davidlim]

u all really think that i should break with her???
any girls out there,pls give some advice,i need advice from girls oso....
:(

 

[ambayah]

I agree with Ninja_IGA, even if she's beautiful and it hurts to let go, think of yourself, will she hurt you more later. If she finds the right guy, will sh then leave you, you know the answer, and you are the only one who can decide.

But it sure will damn hurt kaw kaw. My tip, find another girl before you leave her :devil:

 

[xtorm]

if me......i also dun really know wat to do......but the obvious way is to say bye bye.....juz see if ur heart can tahan or not, i know cos my ex left me for another guy, n tat guy call her in the morning at 3 am when i was sending her back when we r still togather!!!

 

[xerofighter]

oh yeah. i have been through the same shit. ppl calling my gf at late night. she claims its frens but always walk out of the room to talk or speak in mandarin. always seems that there is something going on behind my back. but when this sort of things happens, the trust is gone. at the end of the day its because i cant trust her.

we fought and broke up soon after that. i heard a lot of things from friends regarding her whereabouts and some 'friends' she was going out with during and after she was with me.

so at the end ofthe day, when the trust is gone, no point going further. its just going to turn more and more ugly and the longer it lasts, the more painful it will be when it is gone.

 

[BlackSamurai]

davidlim,
dump her .... before she dump you....
but ... but ....

THINK before you dump.

Be responsible for what ever decision you made.

Don't feel regret later and blame others for giving you all negative input and you make the wrong move.

just my 2 cents